How to Prepare for a Reading: Becoming a Cooperative Component in Your Own Clarity

Booking a reading is an act of courage. It means you’re ready to look at your life with honesty, openness, and a desire for clarity. My intention is always to meet you exactly where you are — grounded, compassionate, and able to help you see the patterns shaping your experience.

Over the years, I’ve noticed something beautiful: When a person shows up ready to receive, the reading becomes a co-creative moment of clarity.

But when someone arrives overwhelmed, ungrounded, or in the center of a crisis, the energy works differently. The reading becomes less about answers and more about helping them find stability first — because clarity can’t land in a dysregulated system.

This blog is here to help you understand how to get the most out of your session and how to become an active, empowered part of your own guidance.

1. Show Up on Time and Breathe Before the Reading Begins

Arriving a few minutes early — even three minutes — allows your energy to settle from the transition. A reading is not just a conversation; it’s an energetic meeting point. If you’re rushing in from errands, work, parenting, or emotional intensity, your aura is still spinning.

A few slow breaths before joining the Zoom link opens the door for clarity to land.

2. Be Open and Willing to Receive

You don’t need to know what to ask. You don’t need to prepare a speech. Your energy will already tell the story.

The best readings happen when you allow yourself to be surprised, supported, and gently shown new perspectives. You don’t have to perform or present anything — simply be present.

3. Understand the Difference Between “Seeking Answers” and “Seeking Stability”

This is an important and compassionate truth:

If you are in the middle of a breakdown, panic, heartbreak, or a sudden collapse, your system may not be able to absorb answers yet.

You may ask:

• “What should I do?”

• “Will this person come back?”

• Why is this happening?”

But when your nervous system is in survival mode, the clarity I give often can’t land — not because it isn’t given, but because your system is still trying not to fall apart.

In these moments, the reading naturally shifts into:

• Grounding

• stabilizing

• helping you feel like yourself again

• reconnecting you to your center

• creating internal space so you can receive guidance later

There is nothing wrong with this. It is still a powerful reading — just a different type of support.

4. Bring a Genuine Curiosity

Curiosity opens the energetic field. When you ask questions like:

• “What’s the deeper pattern here?”

• “What am I not seeing?”

• “How can I work with this energy instead of fighting it?”

…the reading becomes dynamic, cooperative, and aligned with growth.

This is where the magic happens.

5. Know That Your Energy Shapes the Reading

A reading is not a performance you watch — it’s a collaboration between your energy and mine.

If you show up:

• open

• grounded

• willing

• reflective

…the guidance becomes clear, specific, and deeply helpful.

If you arrive:

• dysregulated

• closed off

• demanding predictions

• looking for someone to “fix” the moment

…the reading supports stabilization first, because that is what your system needs.

Both types are meaningful. But they feel very different.

6. You Don’t Need to Know the Outcome — Just the Next Step

People often come wanting the entire roadmap: "Tell me exactly how it will unfold."

But clarity rarely arrives as a 200-step plan. It comes as the next aligned step, and then the next.

The reading will show you:

• the pattern

• the opportunity

• the energy you’re moving into

• how to cooperate with your own life

You will never leave without something practical and meaningful to work with.

7. Trust What Resonates — and Let the Rest Unfold

A reading meets you where you are today. Some insights make sense immediately. Others unfold over weeks or months.

You don’t need to force understanding. Just receive what feels true, and let the clarity mature in its own timing.

Final Thoughts

Your reading is a sacred moment of partnership. When you show up open, grounded, and ready to be a cooperative component in your own clarity, the guidance becomes incredibly powerful.

Whether you’re seeking answers or seeking stability, the reading meets you with exactly what your energy needs — and together, we create space for the next phase of your life to emerge.